Three Important People in My
Life
How do I decide which three
people have been important in my life?
Well first off, my mom has been an important person in my life. She was such a good, loving, and giving
person. She passed away a little over 12
years ago, but still plays a big part in my life. She is important to be because without her I wouldn’t
be where or who I am today. No matter whom
you were and what you did, she would always open her door to you. It is kind of the same flaw I have since
people tend to take advantage of your kindness, but I think it was just what
she knew just like it is what I know.
She always put us kids first before herself. Being a mother of five and raising us alone
had to be rough for her, but she never showed us that. She always made sure we had everything we
need, shelter, food, and clothing. Even
though we would argue and had our differences, she always trusted me and
allowed me to be my own person. She will
always be an important person in my life until the day I die. I am grateful for all the years I had with my
Mom and I will always miss her.
Another person who is important
in my life is my guy best friend Larry.
I have known him for 18 years. I met
him when I worked at my first job, Target.
We worked together for almost 4 years before I quit to start working at
the company I currently work for. He has
been important in my life because since I’ve known him he has always been there
for me through thick and thin. He is the
only guy that has been a constant in my life, and has shown me that he always
will. Last year, when I needed him most,
he was there even when it was hard for him to be there. For that I am so grateful that he is my “lifeboat
friend”. In life it is rare that we meet
a person like that. And here he was
thinking he was failing me as a friend because he couldn’t fix what was wrong
with me, and until this day he still feels as if he failed me. But, at the end I don’t think he realizes that
it makes me feel as if I failed him. And
that he didn’t fail me, it was me that needed to get myself through what I was
going through, and he doesn’t seem to understand that. I do hope in time he will realize that he
did what he need to do, which was be there when I needed someone to talk to or
to occupy my spare time, whether it was going to the movies or dinner and
drinks. He is the one person who knows
everything about me, even from before he met me and full accepts me, flaws and
all.
The last person I think that is
important to me is my three nieces. I can’t
just say one because they all in their own way play an important role in my
life. The oldest is SashaMarie, the
second to the oldest (or second to youngest) is Sanaye, and the youngest is
Sariyah. They are important to me because
they give me a purpose. I have a relationship
with all of them that is a little different from the other, but I love them all
the same. When I go through hard times,
all I have to do is think about them and it helps me. I spend a lot of time with them and enjoy
every minute I have with them, even though they can be a handful. I see
it as a privilege that I am able to get to know them just as they are allowed
to get to know me. I know as they get older
they probably won’t want to hang around with me, so I am going to take advantage
of all the time I get to spend with them.
Sasha has been my little sidekick since the day she was born. She always wants to spend time with me, even
if it’s just to do laundry. Sanaye is
the daring one, who has such a good heart and always knows when I need a
hug. Sariayh, the wild and crazy one, is
the one who can always make me laugh when I am having a bad or stressful day. All three of them play an important part in
my life in their own individual ways. I
hope that I will always be the cool aunt that they want to hang out with, even
when they are older and when I have my own family.